Tagged: Writing Sex Scenes

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FWSG / NonFiction

Crafting Passion: How to Write Authentic Scenes with Incredible Sex

Crafting passion may be the most difficult thing to write in fiction. That’s what I hear from fellow writers. Sex. It’s intimidating. It’s fear-inducing. It’s anxiety-ridden. But what if I told you it didn’t have to be? What if you knew how to write authentic scenes that included incredible sex? It’s all in a little education and rethinking the definitions of scenes-with-sex. In crafting passion, ask, what is a scene-with-sex? Most people will be surprised I phrased my question this way, using scenes-with-sex instead of sex scenes. That’s because most of the time with your characters, sexuality is a part...

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FWSG / NonFiction

Boosting Your Writing Energy: The Power of Collaboration and Support

#1 in the FWSG Series I feel a familiar, historic writing energy as the new year begins. Specifically, academic dissertation energy. One’s dissertation is a research piece where you either confirm someone else’s research or bring forward a new idea. You may have found your niche if your work brings something new forward. If you don’t know what it’s like to write a dissertation, it’s hard. The process is complex. Long and drawn out. It follows tedious rules. It goes through committees that approve, suggest, or deny movement forward. It can be so demanding that many of us called it...

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NonFiction

Why Language Matters: Use Scenes with Sex to Shift Your Writing Perspective.

Why language matters? Welcome to my world of “scenes with sex,” not “sex scenes.” Did you get it? Do you see or know the distinction? If not, welcome to the mind of a retired sex therapist, college professor of human sexuality, and current erotica and erotic romance writer and editor for Rosy. Join me on a sexual language journey where I replace sex scenes with scenes with sex. Is it Potato, Potahtoe, or Tomato, Tomato? You may be one of those who read the two phrases, scenes with sex and sex scenes, and said, “Meh, potato, potahto, it refers to...

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Dr. J.'s News / NonFiction

How Do I Put Sex in the Scenes?

I’m a little behind in my weekly sexuality blog. Usually, when that happens, it is because I’m processing something. So, what exactly is on my mind? It turns out it’s about sex scenes and the crossroads intersection of Dr. J. sex therapist/sex educator with Dr. J. Erotica writer. MY WRITER’S LIFE The last several weeks have been busy. When you weren’t looking, here’s what I’ve been doing. Attending and providing conference workshops. Negotiating my next speaking engagements. Facilitating housing for my author friends for the Amelia Island Book Festival in February 2019 and then for my Sisters in Smut in...