Dr. J. – Author, Editor, Book Coach
Romance with a Brain. Erotica with a Pulse. Coaching with Heat, Heart, and Hustle.
About Dr. J. | Donna Jennings, Ph.D.
Donna Jennings, Ph.D., is Dr. J., author of short stories in ten erotica anthologies and the former editor for Rosy. She wrote Purple Sex and Love Beyond Your Dreams: A Women’s Guided Journal to Explore Your Sexual Self and The Fiction Writer’s Sexuality Guide. Her latest release is Shadows & Silhouettes: Cards of Passion, Book One of The Multi-Author Romance Cards of Passion Series..
💜 Why Dr. J. is an Exceptional Fit for Romance Authors
1. I blend scientific depth with passionate storytelling.
With a Ph.D. and a background in sexuality education, I offer romance authors more than just heat—I provide a holistic, evidence-based framework that empowers you to write intimacy with nuance, depth, and psychological realism. I translate complex concepts like arousal, desire, and differentiation into usable tools that make your writing both practical and profound.
2. I write from lived experience and literary craft.
I’m not only an educator—I’m a working author with published erotic and romantic fiction. I know firsthand the challenges of balancing character, plot, and sensuality, and I bring that real-world perspective to every writer I work with.
3. I champion sex-positivity and inclusivity.
I create a safe, welcoming space for writers to explore sexuality without shame. My workshops, resources, and editorial services reflect my deep commitment to body diversity, aging, consent, LGBTQ+ inclusion, and empowerment—values that are essential to today’s romance.
4. I offer frameworks that elevate craft.
From my PEMS model to character sex histories and scene checklists, I don’t just tell you to “spice it up”—I show you how to integrate sexuality meaningfully into your characters’ arcs, your themes, and your story’s emotional core.
5. I’m a coach, not a critic.
Whether you’re a hesitant beginner or a seasoned pro, I meet you where you are—with empathy, insight, and clear next steps. From 15-minute clarity calls to full manuscript assessments, I’m here to help you grow with confidence.
6. I treat sexuality as story power.
To me, sex is never just a scene—it’s a mirror for identity, transformation, and truth. I help romance authors use sex to reveal character, deepen relationships, and raise the stakes in meaningful, unforgettable ways.
Work With Me
Since most folks don’t receive formal sexuality education, we only have our experience to work from. I combine my life’s experiences to help your characters get the sex they deserve.
Schedule a time with me to see how we might work together. Check out the menu of offerings, I have set up for writers and individuals who want more sexuality information.
Writing Sex Lab #1
This workshop was held in the Author Ever After Romance Community on July 15. 2025.
Writing Sex Lab #1 Sexuality in Motion
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Writing Sex Lab #2
This workshop was held in the Author Ever After Romance Community on August 14, 2025.
Writing Sex Lab #2 From Beats to Heat: Charting the Arcs of Your Story
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Writing Sex Lab #3
This workshop was held in the Author Ever After Romance Community on September 11, 2025.
Writing Sex Lab #3 Turned On: Unlocking Characters’ Hidden Desires, Histories, and Words
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Testimonials
“Dr. J. has an intuitive sense for what makes a scene with sex work in fiction. She has an eye for the underlying motivations each character should bring to the table in order to create satisfying emotional payoff. Her experiences as a sex therapist, sex educator, and fiction writer give her a unique ability to give feedback on sexuality in the context of storytelling.”
“Dr. J.’s insights were an amazing help. She encouraged me to consider who my characters were before my story began, and what elements of their development and sexual history had a bearing on how they might react and interact in the ‘snapshot’ that my story represented.”
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https://x.com/PosyChurchgate“She’s not just someone I work with, she’s also a friend, and sister of my soul. She’s someone I trust creatively, emotionally, and professionally.
If you get the chance to work with her, take it. You’ll walk away with stronger writing, a clearer voice, and the kind of courage that sticks around long after the call ends.”
“I requested a writing consultation with Dr. J. after many frustrating attempts to write sex scenes in my novel. She knew I was nervous and asked easy questions first, so that I was totally comfortable by the time we got to the heart of the matter. Dr. J. is knowledgeable, nonjudgmental, and approaches this topic as an important writing skill. My consultation, coupled with her book and worksheets, resulted in much improved scenes with sex in my novel.”
Jeannette Z. ~Pre-Published AuthorDr. J.’s Writing Sex Lab gave me so much to think about. I came away with ideas on how to integrate the sex more completely with the character arc and the rest of the story. It made me want to write a sex scene!
What can I say about the Sex Writing Lab? I learned Dr. J was a powerhouse from her must-read resource book, The Fiction Writer’s Sexuality Guide: Sex—It’s More Than a Scene, but getting the opportunity to have Dr. J work through content, providing actionable, specific examples, strategies, and feedback, was the best investment I’ve made in my craft in 2025. I highly recommend that anyone who writes about intimacy—not just open-door scenes—attend this session to elevate your prose.
