#1 in the FWSG Series I feel a familiar, historic writing energy as the new year begins. Specifically, academic dissertation energy. One’s dissertation is a research piece where you either confirm someone else’s research or bring forward a new idea. You may have found your niche if your work brings something new forward. If you…
You’ve reached Purple Passion Self-Care in the last three days. Can you believe you are near the end? Do you remember how the challenge started? I celebrated this morning by watching Magic Mike’s Last Dance. I loved the idea presented in the movie that when bodies move, they are sexy. Hopefully, you know yours a…
You’ve completed your third week of your sexual wholeness. Just found us? Start here. How are you different from week one? Week Two? Are you stepping into familiar territory now and enjoying yourself? Have you been journaling about your thoughts and feelings and finding new information about yourself? Week Four of Your Purple Passion Challenges…
A journey to sexual self-expression begins with one step. If you started on January 1, Hooray. If you are starting now, this is where you are supposed to be. Purple Passion is synonymous with sexual energy, wisdom, and desire. It’s yours. Tap into yourself and see what it is about. Check out the daily challenges…
Did you invite the vibrance of purple passion into your world last week? Did you join in the challenge? If you did, how was week one? Did you tap into the physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual realms of your sexuality? What did you learn? If you are just finding the challenge, feel free to incorporate…
The new year is here. For once, begin the year and take time for yourself with the Purple Passion 31-Day Challenge. Invite sexuality into your day, your life, and your world, and learn to love all that you are. This challenge is set up by weeks in seven-day blocks. Grab a new notebook for reflection….
For 2023, I painted purple passion into my themes and products. The energy of it keeps me creating more. With a busy schedule and at the year’s end, I have focused on resolving some health issues. As they settle down, I’ll be headed to Austin for a holiday with family and friends. Travel was a…
Women empower each other, knowingly or unknowingly. I don’t know about you, but I want solid and supportive voices around me. I love Serena Williams’s quote, “Every woman’s success should be an inspiration to another. We’re strongest when we cheer each other on.” When I create a new project, I want to hear the voices…
Your purple sex journey needs a robust toolkit that will highlight all your senses and help you focus on all your body’s sexual components-physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual. What will you need to support you on your journey? Begin the first steps of your journey with an upbeat attitude, an open mind, and an open…
Meditation is one of the several tools I bring forward in Purple Sex. The benefits of a meditation practice help you unlock and access the physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual aspects of human sexuality in your body. The holistic nature of sexual wellness work is exemplified in meditation. Moving along a purple sex journey of…
Affirming your sexual wellness can take many forms. I made the Purple Sex & Love Beyond Your Dreams journal for women with various activities to explore themselves. I wanted to help you with personal growth on your purple sex journey by including affirmations and encouraging customized ones. Affirmations can empower women in their sexual wellness…
Drawing free-form mandala art can be a powerful tool for exploring your sexual wellness. It is an element that I included in the Purple Sex & Love Beyond Your Dreams: A Women’s Guided Journal to Explore Your Sexual Self. It facilitates investigating nine topics of sexuality. Sexual self-exploration or discovery work sits in sensuality, self-intimacy,…
Here is your exclusive Ream peek at Beth and Rafe as they open their relationship to women and men, and they get an introduction to a private sex venue called The Tops and Bottoms Club. When The Sheets Talk By Dr. J. Episode 1 Beth I had to do it before the warmth of the…
Many people wonder how to journal to improve their sexuality. As I created a journal template to help women find their own path, I began my purple sex journey. That voyage helped me see that journaling is a path to discovering your sexual self. For each of us, that journey is to find our unique…
If you know anything about me, you know purple is my color. I look for symbols, meanings, and representations of the things I have around me. I wanted a flower to represent my ideas about purple sex. And the purple hydrangea made the cut. So, let’s see how a purple hydrangea can help you grow…
Yesterday, my son walked into my office and asked me what I was doing. “I’m working,” I said. “But it’s Saturday.” The disbelief dripped off his words. “I know, and I blast purple passion as the book launch gets real.” As a writer, I can’t wait to share this sexual wellness tool. As a reader,…
Another writer’s retreat in the books and we made memories. Sometimes it takes a little time for it to gel. I had hoped to post this last week, but I was still processing it. So many rich thoughts. Some many wonderful connections. And so many words. And sitting in the heart of it all was…
A magic elixir is produced when writers get together. It has a texture like cotton candy. A smell like an English garden in spring or caramel over the sea salt. A look like a Monet painting, hazy with all our energy. A taste of tequila aged in oak barrels. A sound like a guitar riff…
We are coming into the home stretch for closing out May, our sexual self-care month. The 31-day challenge presented bite-size pieces for you to reclaim your sexual self in time. This is my fourth post on the topic, and I hope it provides MITE. Motivation. Information. Transformation. And Education. We can step into our fullest…
Empowering self-pleasure can have unintended consequences. If you took the time to focus on the challenge, perhaps you discovered new delights. If it was difficult to move through the challenge, maybe it highlighted a dilemma. Either way-you got new information that you can act on in the future. Even though we are halfway through the…
Welcome back to Celebrating Your Sensual Self. Week one is officially over. If this is your first visit to May’s Self-Pleasure Challenge, welcome to week two, May 7-13. We started last week with information about setting out May’s Pleasure Event Challenge, the ways to maximize your pleasure challenge, and outlining what the challenge is about. …
Welcome to May’s Monthly Self-Pleasure Challenge Week One, May 1-6 Self-Pleasure to know thyself. Could this be more relevant than for your sexuality? Most folks don’t know their sexual self because our culture, institutions, family, and society send negative messages about understanding ourselves as sexual human beings. I created this sexuality challenge for masturbation month…
What exactly is a character sex coach? A character sex coach is essentially a sex therapist or educator for your characters. They can help you, the author, understand how sexuality fits into your characters’ personalities, motivations, and relationships. Best of all, they guide you in using sexuality to deepen your readers’ connection to your story….
For any starting point on your sexuality, let’s think about structure. I’ve found the best way to approach this personal learning is to use a holistic sex-positive approach focusing on Body. Mind. Heart. Spirit. If you want to become your best sexual self, you need to learn about yourself within the layers of your sexual self….
